For women who have already decided

What he'll do first — and the six moves after it.

Most women expect anger. What actually arrives is more organized than that, and it arrives in a sequence. This free guide describes all seven, in order, in the exact words each one tends to come in.

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WHAT HE'LL
DO FIRST

SECOND WIND

The sequence:

01The good version comes back

02An emergency that needs you

03The story arrives before you do

04The money moves

05The children become the channel

06He files first

07He becomes impeccable

“The most dangerous time for a victim of domestic violence is when she is preparing to leave or has just left the relationship.”

NCADV — National Coalition Against Domestic Violence

What this is: A free 10-page guide describing the seven moves that tend to follow a woman leaving — what each one sounds like, what it's for, and why it works.

What this isn't: Clinical advice. Legal advice. A replacement for The Hotline (1-800-799-7233). It describes what he does; it does not tell you what to do about it. For immediate danger, call 911.

Built by someone who watched a woman they love leave safely.
Written with input from domestic violence advocates and survivor accounts.

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